On Cosmic Feelings And More: A Guide To Giving Blowjob

The conception related to oral sex has mostly been avoided due to many conventional issues. The conventionality related to the point of indulging in oral sex, be it any of any form, creates a sense of repulsion in the mind of a partner. It happens due to a lack of conversation and understanding between them. 

Oral sex is one of the very crucial steps that enhance the passionate indulgence between two couples. Many prejudiced beliefs are surrounding the discussion of oral sex, be it blowjob or rimjob. But the pleasure that one would attain through the execution of the unknown will have them thrown into a realm of endless passionate possibilities. 

A blowjob or fellatio is one of those things that increases the sensation that will create suspense on the psyche of your man. Because your man deserves nothing less than a cosmic feeling of being thrust into the endless possibilities of being enlightened.

The Importance Of Verbal Stimulation During A Blowjob

As we said before, the notion regarding giving a blowjob has still not been explored. Many hesitate or many just tend to give their partner a blowjob out of fear of rejection.

This realm of oral sex is very important to peak sexual sensation. It escalates the sensuousness at the moment. Instead of looking at giving a blowjob as a task, take it as a part of your partner.

Appreciate the love that your partner showers on you, imagine how your partner does everything to fulfill your sexual desires and channel the same sensation through your blowjob.

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However, the easy way to get it done is by maintaining communication throughout the process. Why this verbal stimulation you ask? Simple, because each person has their preference.

You don’t know what your man would like. What you are trying to do may or may not please your man? So indulging in verbal or gestural communication, you can amp up your game. Let’s discuss how you can get it done.

1. Let Your Partner Guide You

You can use your partner’s hand to guide you through the whole process. It is very tough to channel your feelings through the execution of a “new man” or the same partner on a different day. What they prefer will change according to mood and time.

I mean, we have all been there, haven’t we girls? Sometimes our men like to go wild, sometimes they just want to feel our tenderness. So giving them the steering wheel to help you steer towards what they want is the right thing to do.

2. Ask Your Partner To Give You Brief Instructions

If hand gestures are too much to incorporate during sex, you can ask your partner to guide you through the process by giving brief instructions. Use words like ‘faster’, ‘tongue’, ‘slower’ etc to describe the momentum, technique, and method.

It will help you do it perfectly throughout the step. You can ask your partner what techniques he will like beforehand too to not make the sexual activity go smoother.

3. Incorporate Both These Techniques

The best way to help your partner feel the cosmic feeling is through the incorporation of the steps mentioned above.

You can ask your partner to talk to you through the process or guide you through the momentum of his hand so that you can give him what he wants.

Conversing freely about your sexual desires is something that you should do very often. Lack of sexual initiation taken from both sides can cause a strain in the relationship.

That is why you should have little morning talks about what you want and how you want it with your partner to achieve that goal. Converse with your man on what he desires to make the whole process more effective.

Procedure To Approach The Task Of Giving A Blow Job

The last thing we want is dissatisfaction during sex, don’t we ladies? Our partners devote their whole energy towards providing us with a cosmic sensation of orgasm, it is our job to provide our man with the same feeling too.

There is no single method set in stone to provide a blowjob. It varies depending on the mood, situation, and the person’s impersonal choice.

That is why you have to talk about the procedure with your partner. However, in this particular section, we will provide you with the basic procedure of giving your man the blowjob he deserves.

1. Build Up The Hype

Imagine, you are sitting up with your partner, you are trying to be cute with him by moving your hands up and down on his chest and then around his groin. You have to keep pretending to be innocent.

Now slide your hand inside his pants and touch the hem of his underwear. Slide your lips against his neck and breath slowly and when he seems to be interested, just move away. Fun, isn’t it?

Execute the same thing to make your partner want you more. Let him make you devour you, make him want you more. This particular step is very important to set the mood. Make that adrenaline pumping in his pants.

2. Sit In A Comfortable Position

After making him anticipate your naughty moves, you have to get in a comfortable position. The wrong position can be a huge turndown.

Sitting in a position that would suit both you and your partner is very important. You can either lay your partner down and hop on him. You can do the 69 positions. You can either do it on the sofa. There are many ways to indulge in the activity.

You just have to know whether it goes according to how your man wants it. The whole point of giving a blowjob is to make your man cum like never before so make sure to do that.

3. Use Lube Or Condoms If You Want

If you are an eclectic woman like me and have had many rounds of sexual encounters with your partner in a short period, then it is normal for women like us to get dried mouths and let me tell you one thing.

Dry mouth and blowjob is not a good combination. If you get dry mouth more than often then use lube or flavored condoms during a blowjob. It will make the process more smooth and easy-going.

4. Ask Your Partner What He Wants In Between The Process

In between the process of oral sex, keep posing phrase such as ‘do you like it baby?’, ‘do you want me to do it?’, or tease him by addressing your next move and allow him to answer.

It will create a whole momentum where your partner will have the opportunity to tell you what he desires.

Conversing during oral sex is not only a sign of proficiency but the feedback makes it much more appealing. It sets the mood right as your procedures get recognized by your partner.

5. Excite Him

Now it is at this place where you have to incorporate all the new techniques to make him beg for it more. You can use different patterns of swirling around the tip of his penis to excite him more.

Use the tips of your tounge to incite sensation on the sensitive zones of his penis to initiate a sensation. You have to maintain the speed of your momentum to match his desires. Only then will you be able to give the blowjob he deserves.

Techniques You Can Incorporate

Yeah, it is not rocket science but there is a simple technique that could make all the difference. Incorporate the following procedures to make him thaw.

1. Swirl The Tongue, Girl

You can swirl the tongue in a clockwise and an anti-clockwise manner to provoke a sensuousness on the tip of the penis. If the penis is not circumcised then you can pull back the flap to swirl around the tip.

2. Mind The Pace

The basic notion regarding blowjob appeals to the person to move from a slow pace movement to a fast pace. However, you can adjust after asking your partner too.

3. Put That Hand To Work

Utilise your hand to caress the shaft of the penis. You have to let the thumb scrape the frenulum as your hand tries to reach the head. You can proceed with this process while licking his penis and sucking it.

4. Suck It Right

You have to suck the penis in the right manner. Don’t exert too much power. It might hurt your man. While taking the penis in your mouth, suck in a bit of air in your mouth.

Or insert your chin in and use it to lock your mouth on the penis. It will provide him with a warm and fuzzy feeling that one gets while penetration. Create friction to mimic the sensation.

5. Kiss It, Lick It

In between the process of the blowjob, you have to incorporate kissing the nozzle, licking it from the rectums to his penis. It will incite him more.

Few Tips And Tricks To Master The Art Of Blowjob

If you are a novice at this game of giving blowjobs, then let me tell you one thing. Incorporating small things or adjusting small details can make a huge difference in the result you will be producing.

Incorporate the tips and tricks that we will share within this section to make the whole technique more effective.

• Maintain the three C’s of the whole process. Communicate, comment, and connect. Communicate about what you should do next and what your man desires, ask for feedback, and stay connected during the process of blowjob
• Use lube or condoms if your mouth gets dry easily
• Always set the mood. Read the situation before initiating or leading him on
• Providing a blowjob to excite him before you guys can start your next round is a great idea to heat things
• Set a pace that would suit your partner. Going too slow may not do anything or go too fast may just hurt him. We don’t want his pee-pee to loose skin, do we? That is why you have to ask him how he likes it. Or you can start at a slow pace and at the peak hour, you can shift to a fast-paced movement
• Make sure that you are looking at his eyes. Keeping your eyes locked with his will make the moment more steamy
• Read your man’s body language to understand whether he is liking it or not. Trust us, you will be able to detect the sheer joy on his face that one gets with a blowjob
• You have to switch between giving blowjobs and handjobs. A prolonged period of blowjob may tire your mouth. If this ever happens, shifting between those two methods will not only make it exciting but will make it last more longer.

Precautionary Steps You Need To Ensure While Giving A Blowjob

To make the session of giving a steamy blowjob, you have to take some precautionary steps. It will not only ensure the safety of your partner but will heighten the level of sensuousness he will be acquiring. Remember girls, we don’t want to hurt our men, we just want him to have the best time of his lives.

• Mind The Teeth

You have to make sure that your teeth don’t get in between your mouth and penis while giving a blowjob. It might scratch the skin of your partner.

• Mind The Pubic Hair

You have to stay away from the pubic hair too. if the pubic hair gets caught in between your teeth, then it might hurt your partner.

Some Questions That Might Be Popped Up On Your Mind

1. What do I do if my mouth gets tired?

If your mouth gets tired then you have to switch with your hands. Switching with your hands and mouth will ensure affectability.

2. Should I spit or swallow?

This answer is subjective. It depends on you. If you want to swallow it, you are free to do it. If you want to spit it, you are free to do it. However, you can converse with your partner about it.

3. Should I include gagging or not?

Gagging does not ensure a pleasant way of providing blowjobs. It may heighten the risk of choking. However, you can deep throat him by using a little trick. Use your tongue to block the tip of the penis head so that you don’t gag.

4. Should I deep throat?

The answer to this question is also subjective. It depends on the person who is providing the blowjob. Asking your partner whether he wants it or not may make the decision easier.

Conclusion 

Blowjob is an essential part of human fornication as it will make your partner want you more. It is a form of sexual activity that can help you know him better, and know his sexual desires better. Keep in mind all the things that we have shared above to provide your man with the cosmic excitement that he deserves.